It's hard to stop rumors, drama, or even lies about someone, my thing is if you have a problem or heard something from someone instead of spreading it around you should grow some nads and go to that person and ask them about it. instead of being to scared and just going and spreading it to everyone else so it could get around making that person feel like a freaking hoe. the funny thing is stuff gets spread around fast in that place because its so small it will get around to everyone and everyone will start talking and leading it back to the peoples family so they can get in her face about it. if she hasnt told you about it that means its not true.
also its just hard for a parent to comment on something like this because there so angry and hurt that they think that there kid is hiding some thing from them but in all reality there not, you may think about it and say well she has to be hiding something since shes been quiet and hasnt really talked about whats going on in her life well maybe its not about the rumors or drama maybe its just something going on and she wants to yell it to the world but she cant. and when she wants to tell her family about it mainly her bestfriend being her mom, but in all sence its so hard for her to talk to her mom now a days because her mom just doesnt understand or let her talk and just sit there in listen when really thats all she really needs. so if you want something out of her then just ask her when its just u and her and not yell or be angry just let her sit there and tell u whats going on.
so in all reality if people want to spread crap about someone make sure u got ur facts straight before going and spreading it all around. THANKS
2 comments:
crab..no matter where you go one faces rumers all the time. when we as families hear something about a loved one we go right to them and talk to them about it so it stops with the family.our laundry sorta speak stays within the family and that is the way we have always wanted it.
when you get home we will tallk, i will listen and be patient with you..one day at a time one step at a time. No matter what i am your momma im not going anywhere and i plan on sticking around a long long time.
i know what you mean about not being able to talk its ok just keep trying.remember mamaw and i?always rufflings eachothers feathers..always..but what i would give to be doing that right now..you only have one momma and one family that loves you so very much. they will be still standing when others wont..
I am so proud of you for posting your feelings dont ever feel bad when you do..love you always and for ever
Momma :)
thanks mom ok.. thats why i got these to speak out to yell to the world or just express myself its kinda like my journal at the same time and i know i have one family and i love u all very much and im glad u asked me about it and stuff i just dont want everything to go to dad cuz hell get mad and not talk to me like he hasnt called me all day so i kinda think u talked to him about it and then when ur like it will stay between us some how some way dad finds out thats also why i cant really talk to u some things are just left to be between us and not towards dad if i wanted him to knokw i would tell him. well ok see u in four days i love u mom ..
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